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Post by GodSyllaw on Mar 17, 2005 23:50:13 GMT -5
that does it. i just got a prank call from that idiot. does any one know where i could get a cheap gun or two. 1) Guns don't solve anything unless you're at war. 2) Don't dirty your hands, he sounds stupid enough for you to be able to trick him into biting his fingers off. 3) Even though I don't like comformity, you shouldn't try to be 100% different from everyone else. . .Everybody's the same in some way. ~GS
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Post by the-storm-wingless-guy on Mar 18, 2005 0:15:01 GMT -5
well since all my friends are people i have never seen i dont mind blabing my personal life on this board. i have just had the worst day of my entire life, and i am feeling really down. i am 15 and at school, and i am the loner just sitting in the corner not caring what people say about me, and my long...my really long hair, and this person comes up to me and asks me why i have long hair, and funny clothes, and act wierd. i get into this argument about conformity and the evils of it, and i relize that i am sitting arguing with this deeply stupid person, and she is just like every one there. they are all so stupid and they all are so concerned with how other people look at them, and this massive resentment comes over me. and i just feel so hateful of the world right now. someone please talk to me. I am a 2 years younger then you. but I know how you feel being a loner. well I had a friend that backstabed me. just forget it. just do what I would do. 1 tell the person to shut up. 2 when you come home from school drink a cold re-freshing pepsi. 3 play with xevoz. 4 watch your favorte show. 5 read a nice gorey book. 6 rent a game or a movie 7 beat the crap out of em I know how ya feel.
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Post by Bleighdzes on Mar 18, 2005 0:31:37 GMT -5
1) Guns don't solve anything unless you're at war. 2) Don't dirty your hands, he sounds stupid enough for you to be able to trick him into biting his fingers off. 3) Even though I don't like comformity, you shouldn't try to be 100% different from everyone else. . .Everybody's the same in some way. ~GS I agree and disagree with some things GS is saying. 1) I agree - Don't go for a gun; that won't help you. In fact, you'll find it will be more hurtful than what others think of you. You ain't at war with anyone, it's just dumb kids being ... well, dumb. Trust me, I've been there. 2) I agree again, don't dirty your hands with it. If they continue to fuss about your appearance or whatever, just brush it off. Showing them that it annoys you will only egg them on to continue messing with you (Case in point with a familiar scenario on this board ). 3) I disagree - be as different as you want to be. If you don't fit in with their scheme, hey, you just don't fit in with their scheme, but who are THEY anyway? We all weren't made from the same mold, ... unless you're a twin of somebody, guess that would be kinda different. But seriously, magus, I wouldn't sweat their beef about how you don't fit into what they consider to be "trendy" or "in". Try not to get caught up in what they think. The only thing that matters and should matter is what you think. If you're comfortable with yourself as you are, then don't change a thing. You've got every right to be how you want to be as you are as long as you aren't hurting yourself or anybody else. Sometimes you find that people who decide to be a part of the "in" crowd are just people who are afraid to be different for fear of rejection; nothing more than social cowards. It's a shame that kids still have these perceptions, but I guess things will never change, or is it the more things change, the more they stay the same, who knows. One thing is for certain, popularity ends after high school, but character stays with you forever. Just remember this magus, if you can't be true to the people around you because they can't deal with it, then that's their problem, not yours. Just be true to yourself.
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Post by GodSyllaw on Mar 18, 2005 0:33:31 GMT -5
1 tell the person to shut up. 2 when you come home from school drink a cold re-freshing pepsi. 3 play with xevoz. 4 watch your favorte show. 5 read a nice gorey book. 6 rent a game or a movie 7 beat the crap out of em Hmm, I like what you have here, but we should make the most out of this list, don't you think little Timmy? This is what the list should be so we can get the most out of it. 1) Tell the person to shut his hole and give him a clean shot to the abdomen. 2) After a long day of putting up with idiots you need "A little sumthin' sumthin' " so once you come home from school it's Miller time. 3) Play with Xevoz. . .Or yourself w/e floats your boat at the time. 4) Watch the news, mainly CNN all the horrible crap that goes on in the world should make you feel better about your life. 5) Watch the movie "SAW" 6) Order porn on paper view then go play Leisure Suit Larry: Magnum Cum Laude, or some other game that you can commit mass murder and level up insanely (Otogi 2:: Immortal Warriors or Devil May Cry 3) 7) Repeat step 1 over 200 times. ~GS
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Post by the-storm-wingless-guy on Mar 18, 2005 0:34:25 GMT -5
I agree and disagree with some things GS is saying. 1) I agree - Don't go for a gun; that won't help you. In fact, you'll find it will be more hurtful than what others think of you. You ain't at war with anyone, it's just dumb kids being ... well, dumb. Trust me, I've been there. 2) I agree again, don't dirty your hands with it. If they continue to fuss about your appearance or whatever, just brush it off. Showing them that it annoys you will only egg them on to continue messing with you (Case in point with a familiar scenario on this board ). 3) I disagree - be as different as you want to be. If you don't fit in with their scheme, hey, you just don't fit in with their scheme, but who are THEY anyway? We all weren't made from the same mold, ... unless you're a twin of somebody, guess that would be kinda different. But seriously, magus, I wouldn't sweat their beef about how you don't fit into what they consider to be "trendy" or "in". Try not to get caught up in what they think. The only thing that matters and should matter is what you think. If you're comfortable with yourself as you are, then don't change a thing. You've got every right to be how you want to be as you are as long as you aren't hurting yourself or anybody else. Sometimes you find that people who decide to be a part of the "in" crowd are just people who are afraid to be different for fear of rejection; nothing more than social cowards. It's a shame that kids still have these perceptions, but I guess things will never change, or is it the more things change, the more they stay the same, who knows. One thing is for certain, popularity ends after high school, but character stays with you forever. Just remember this magus, if you can't be true to the people around you because they can't deal with it, then that's their problem, not yours. Just be true to yourself. well said
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Post by Bleighdzes on Mar 18, 2005 0:43:36 GMT -5
well said and with that said, I'm out like a burnt out bulb. magus, just take it easy and be chill. Don't go doing anything drastic either. If you need more advice or conversation on the topic, send me a PM or add on to this thread. I don't do this for a living, but some of my friends say I should.
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Post by magus on Mar 18, 2005 0:55:49 GMT -5
i am normaly okay with being an outcast, but that one person really got to me for some reason. thank you all. i feel a little bit better.
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Post by Grayfox on Mar 18, 2005 1:53:06 GMT -5
I gotta agree with the others, if you feel you need to let your anger out, it's better to do it in a fun or self rewarding way. For example, play a video game (Postal 2, Grand theft auto, etc) or simply body building if that's more your cup of tea
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Post by Lightwolfer on Mar 18, 2005 3:10:12 GMT -5
... Ok, I went 2 years without friends. like, for real. Not one. This doesn't seem that bad, in my eyes. I'm 16, 17 in may.
But I would laugh at you for the conformest comment.
I got out of school because I was going thru enough stress to actually get me out perminantly. Then I just graduated early, so i didn't have to see people.
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Post by Lightwolfer on Mar 18, 2005 3:17:48 GMT -5
Oh, and guns aren't satisfing enough. You get them to some remote area and beat them. With something like, a pan or something.
Best thing I did to ignore the people was, well, to get the hell out. I started to get hives during classes and went to the doctor and found out it was from stress. Everyday! Then I skipped some classes, got anxiety attacks so bad that I almost scratched my teachers face, went to homeschool, graduated, and failing my first collage class.
But now at least I have friends. And stuff. And am becoming more active. And stuff.
Damn it. Read One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest. It made me feel better. No reason, just a good book. Or you could have sex with someone who's popular with unpopular people and make friends with his brother!
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Post by rupert on Mar 18, 2005 12:31:05 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]magus, check your inbox.[/glow]
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Post by Xaolin on Mar 18, 2005 15:15:27 GMT -5
If I could, I would give each and every one of you wee tykes a hug. Just know this, high school is totally different from the rest of life. Don't mess up the rest of your life by doing something stupid and illegal. Things have a way of working theirselves out. Just the other day I had a minor altercation, luckilly wifey kept me from catching a case. As mad as I was and ready to strangle this dude, the wife reminded me of my motto: "FU*K EM". Don't let the little crap get you down dude, things change. Be smart and concentrate on your schoolwork. Don't give a crap what those dumb pregnant doges do or say.
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Post by Xaolin on Mar 18, 2005 15:17:46 GMT -5
Don't give a crap what those dumb pregnant doges do or say. You can't say the B word? LAME
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Post by Lightwolfer on Mar 18, 2005 15:43:17 GMT -5
I found that out when I tried to say 'looks pregnant dogin'
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Post by Squishee Slinger on Mar 18, 2005 16:08:16 GMT -5
Meh... almost everyone conforms in some way, shape, or form to a group of chosen peers and idols. Whether it be to the American Dream archetypes, smaller groups of freaks and geeks, musical/artistic influences, alternative lifestyles, or specail interests almost everyone has a clique or is looking for one to run with one. Also almost every group of people looks down on others and mocks them whether it be openly or quietly is really irrelevant. Saying these kids are stupid and all the same is as close minded and ingorant as them teasing you for flying your non-conformist flags. The truth is all of them aren't the same and all of them are not stupid. Some just may not know who they are yet or are afraid to take the steps nessary to find out.
I have met a handful of people who really are non-conformists in almost every way in life. They tend to be very happy loners who are intensely wrapped up in personal pursuits and have no idea what is going on in the world around them in a lot of aspects. They are different because they tend to be oblivious to making fashion statements or following trends of pop or any sub-culture. Most of these people seem to be happily forgotten people who don't seem to notice or care: I'd best describe them as lovable losers. It's good life for them as they seem content, but it's not the kind of existence I would enjoy living persoanally. The rest of us spend most of our young lives trying to figure out who and what we are while flip-flopping playing the martyr and the aggressor when it best serves our needs.
~SS~
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